prostitute :: زن خیابانی

A prostitute may have so much pleasure in her life; she may forget her problems with

pleasure,She may have an exciting life, but what can she do when she is an old woman?

Can she have a good family and good partner or good friends or good job or good children?

Will she face with serious problems?

يك زن یا دختر خیابانی  ممكن است از لذت زيادي در زندگي برخوردار باشد و با  لذت وتنوع  روزانه

؛مشكلات و دردهايش را فراموش كند.

او ممكن است زندگي هبجان انگيزي داشته باشد ولي در سنين بالا چه خواهد كرد؟آيا او در سنين بالا

 و وقتي كه ديگر طرفداري بين مردان ندارد،زندگي و خانواده و يار و دوست و شغل و فرزنداني دارد؟

آيا او با مشكلات جدي روبرو نخواهد شد؟

Respect and courtesy :: ادب و احترام

I have not seen respect, courtesy and true logic in the behaviors of our

people.

 I have not seen honesty as a value in our society.

I have not seen logical behaviors or logical thoughts in here.

We are totally stranger with these concepts: respect, courtesy, logical

behavior,

honesty, etc.

  I just have seen lies,violence and discourtesy.   

من ادب،احترام و منطق درست را در رفتارهاي مردم خود نديده ام.

من صداقت را به عنوان يك ارزش در جامعه نديده ام.

من در اينجا رفتار ها و افكار منطقي و خردگرايانه نديده ام.

ما كاملا با اين مفاهيم بيگانه ايم:احترام،ادب،رفتار منطقي،راستي و ...

من در اينجا فقط دروغ و خشونت و بي ادبي ديده ام.

The most important value of life ::مهم ترین ارزش زندگی

To me, the most important value of life is learning, learning new

sciences and knowledge, an open and free shape of learning. And also

 I think that it helps us to be more aware, have more power and feel

better.

Have you ever thought about our previous leanings? Life is a pervasive

learning, right or wrong leanings. But now, we can override them with

some new leanings.

And in this way science, modern values and humanistic values can help

us.

از ديدگاه من،مهم ترين ارزش زندگي يادگيري است.يادگرفتن چيزهاي

جديد،علم و دانش جديد.و البته شكلي آزاد از يادگرفتن،رها از باورها و تعصب

هاي گوناگون.يادگيري جديد يعني آگاهي بيشتر،قدرت بيشتر و احساس بهتر.

 

يادگيري هاي جديد،تجربه هاي جديد و علم و دانش و آگاهي جديد به غناي

زندگي كمك مي كند،مي تواند موجب قدرت بيشتر فرد يا سيستم شود و به

خاطر قدرت و تسلط بيشتر،احساس بهتري مي آفريند.انسان از هر چيز

آشنايي آرامش مي گيرد،پس يادگيري و آگاهي در مورد امور بسيار كارساز

است.

تاكنون در مورد يادگيري هاي گذشته انديشيده ايد؟زندگي يعني

 يادگيري.زندگي پر است از يادگيري هاي درست و غلط،از نوزادي تا كودكي

 و نوجواني و جواني ...

 

البته با يادگيري هاي جديد مي توانيم روندهاي ناقص گذشته را جبران كنيم

 و در اين راه علم و دانش و ارزشهاي مدرن و انساني مي توانند كمكمان

 كنند

Seksuality and violence

We know that violence is an obvious phenomenon in relations. In

every relation, such as animal, human and even in some plant's

relations, we can see this phenomenon very easily.

 

One of the reasons is differences between the existents, different

needs and viewpoints.

And in the sexual relationships, there is a special story. If the

pleasure is more, sensitivity will be more, and consequently the

violence degree will be more. So we have an overt violence about

the gender related relationships.

 

In the beginning of the human civilization or before that, and

when we hadn't any development in societies, there were some

quarrels about women and seks.

 

Imagine you are living in those ancient eras. You have a mate.

 People do not have sufficient clothing, and therefore men and

women cannot control their seksual instincts as well as nowadays.

When you are asleep, a man comes and tries to seks with your mate.

Your mate do not have advanced cognition, insight or commitment,

so she probably would not resist, she just peruses pleasure and

calmness as other men and women.

And also she is important for you, because she makes you calm and

gives you pleasure and fun, and this is very important for you, so you

may kill that man to protect your family and your calmness.

 

Because of these sorts of problems, next societies created some

concepts, laws, limitations, customs, ceremonies, etc such as sin,

clothing, marriage, intimacy, punishment, shame, self repression, etc.

This problem (seks related violence) has been solved approximately in

some modern societies with redefining some concepts, laws and

relations, but we still have this problem in the traditional societies.

 

Imagine (even though it is hard to imagine) that in some traditional

societies, father or brother kills the girl Just for a seksual sin. This is a

tragedy in our societies, ignorance is dominant in our mind,

instead of mercy and love.

 

And nowadays, we have too many problems and pain about this

issue, just for some prejudices, just for some childish resists, and

dogmatic viewpoints,

And just for mind's darkness.

The animal inside

All of us have an animal in our existence. Nobody is animal or

angel totally.We are human and we have an animal in our existence.

 

And about the animal, we know that the animal pursues pleasure

or aggression, and it has a specific biological part in the brain.

When we are angry or when we are seeking pleasure, the animal is

dominant.

 

We should know and control the animal for having a better life. In

 my opinion, the most problems in the life occur when there are

 some conflicts between the personality and the animal. And

Personality consists of some concepts and realities that have been

acquired through living in the environments. The animal does not

accept any limitation and just needs pleasure, so when there is a

problem, the conflict and aggression probably will occurs. 

 

You should know your own animal lonely, nobody can help you!!!

 

Somebody have changed or controlled their animal, and somebody

does not have enough control or recognition on their animal. There

are different ways of living, but it's a simple and scientific fact that

control and also recognition is a better choice for having a reliable

and peaceful life.

Main Purpose

Everyone has some main purposes in the life. My main purposes in the life are

getting more and more awareness and intelligence and also leave good

effects in the universe.

 I think that our lifetime is transitory, so we should try to have a quiet and

pleasurable life and also leaving good effects.

Take the life easy; because we know that our feelings are dependent on our

psychological status, and when we prepare our mind and our relations

and our environments to have a special sort of life and feeling, the purpose

will be acquired exactly!

Believe me!

Transitory

This is an advantage that each pain and pleasure is transitory. And when we

review the past, it is not very painful. as I said the past is transitory, every

 bad or good situation, every pain and pleasure is temporary.

 

So the conclusion is that we should not take situations very serious. In

addition, our joy and pain are dependent on our expectations and desires

 and previous experiences. Therefore it is a simple fact that we should

 change our expectations and our desires according to our experiences.

 

 We need reconsideration, especially about our weak points and problems.